This article originally appeared in MindBodyGreen.
Eleanor Roosevelt once said that "Happiness is not a goal; it is a byproduct." As humans, we often believe that when we buy a house, or fall in love, or receive that well-deserved promotion at work, we will be truly happy. But why do we infer that happiness is only attainable through milestone events or achievements?
The reality of this tendency is that it may not be happiness that we are seeking and experiencing on a daily basis but instead satisfaction. Perhaps we live our day-to-day lives pursuing the things that make us happy, which then contributes to our overall sense of satisfaction.
If you look up happiness and satisfaction in a dictionary, the two definitions are quite similar. Both use words such as "joy" and "contentment," describing a pleasant and delighted emotion. But why is it then that people often say, "Do what makes you happy" but never think to advise "Pursue what satisfies you"? It may have a different ring to it, but it is a good indicator of a different sense of contentment.